Operation Take Back Your Husband

THE IMPACT PRINCIPLES
Principles are principal requirements for positive revolution.Every result an individual desires is possible if the individual can apply the right principles. Principles are determining factors between: right and wrong, good and evil, failure and success, prosperity and poverty, a successful marriage and an unsuccessful marriage.
Principles are simply laid down rules, formulas, or settings for life occurrences. Nothing happens by chance and there is no accidental breakthrough. Every positive result is provoked by a correct application of the right principles. It is said in physics that, an object is at its resting place until a force is applied to it. This goes to confirm the truth that every positive result in life is as a result of a well calculated strategy. If most women have lost their husbands to other women, it is simply because of the principles they failed to apply. If free women are today parading with the husbands of most married women, it is because they apply principles which were to be applied by the married women but they failed. It is one thing for a woman to get married and another thing for her to keep her home. It is one thing for a woman to have a husband and another thing for her to keep her husband to herself.
Failure in principles must result to a breakdown in a marriage relationship. Every positive result in life is governed by principles. Ignorance of the principles which governs healthy marital relationship is what most married women are ignorant of. This ignorance has imprisoned most women in loneliness and joyless marriage relationship. While in the contrary, most free women are living happily with the husbands of married women because they are applying the principles meant for the married women to keep their homes, and their husbands to themselves. This implies, right has behaved wrongly and wrong has behaved rightly. Married women have failed to do what is right and so, they have given opportunity to free women to exploit this failure to their advantage. The solution to this dilemma is not tears, nor suicide but a rediscovery of the principles applied by the free women which attracted the husbands of the married women. When these principles are discovered and applied by married women, there will be a natural occurrence of the return of their husbands. A man can not leave his wife to another woman, if the wife is providing what the husband is looking for outside.
When a woman succeeds to bring home what the husband is looking for outside, that puts an end to the husband's search. If a man leaves a woman to another woman and not to an angel, it implies the problem is not a personality problem but a principle problem. For a woman to keep her home or to take back her husband, principles are more of demands than her personality. I have seen beautiful educated women lose their husbands to uneducated women. I have seen house wives lose their husbands to house girls. The issue is not a personality problem, but a principle problem. Throughout this book, we will be exploring the principles which are highly needed for a woman to keep her home or take back her husband. The first time I brought out these principles in an operation take back your husband seminar, held in Bamenda Cameroon, thousands of women testified of regaining their husbands after these principles were applied. If you are a woman reading this book, know that you are face to face with knowledge which can change your world. Don't only read but apply this principles and you will be dazed with surprises as far as your marriage is concerned.
If you are a young unmarried lady, know that the information in this book will prepare you to enjoy your marriage and not to endure. Preparation determines implementation. The loss of husbands to free women is not a personality problem but a principle problem, and operation take back your husband is a battle of principles. Any woman who fails in the application of the right principles in her marriage must fail in her home. A wise woman buildeth her house but the foolish one (one void of the principles of successful marriage) tears it down with her hands1. Most women have driven their husbands away by their ignorance, attitude and character. I believe this book is a social contribution to enhance quality and healthy marital relationship. If you are a woman reading this book, I see you become a wise woman who will build her home and not a foolish woman who will tear down her home.
THE VALUE CONCEPT
"And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, we will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach". What is not valued must surely be devalued. What is not appreciated, must surely depreciate. What a person values, he cherishes. What a person values, he protects. What a person values, he keeps.
What a person does not value, must be take from him and given to some one who values it. What a person does not value he can't keep. Etc. The value concept is an important principle to help women keep their husbands. A woman's value for her marriage will determine the way she operates in her home. According to the above quotation, it is said, a day will come when the ratio of women to men will be "seven is to one". This implies, there will be seven women to one man. I declare boldly without any apology that, that day is finally here. To every single man, there are seven women looking for vacancy. This should place a married woman in a position where she should not take her marriage to her husband as a privilege but as a responsibility. If you know that what you have is being contested by seven other persons, it is wisdom to value it and cherish it. That is why the book of proverbs commended the wise woman for building her house and shamed the foolish woman for tearing down her home.
"Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands"2.
Only a foolish woman with no sense of value will look low on her marriage. And of a truth, most women have actually insulted and abused the privilege of marriage. This attitude has driven their husbands away in search of other women who can value and respect their privilege of being chosen as a wife among seven. There is an adage which says, 'what a person has, he doesn't value like the man who doesn't have it'. This is true of many women. The way some women treat their marriages; have given the free women a lot of opportunity to attract their husbands, by trying to prove more caring and loving. A man without the fear of God can never live with a woman who looks low on him. Men have a natural pride as the head of the home. Any attitude from the women which throws this crown on the ground sends the men who lack the fear of God, running behind free ladies who greatly value their privilege with a married man.
If a woman will keep her home, her value for her husband must change. And if a woman will bring back her husband, she must reveal her great value for the man. Free ladies have made great use of the value concept for so long and have cheated the married women from their husbands. A man, whose wife disrespects him and is indifferent to her marriage responsibilities, will be easily attracted by a free girl who can offer him such services. Some free girls have applied all valuable methods like being more respectful and caring. Others offer services like the washing of men's dresses, ironing them, cooking food on time, speaking sweet words to their targeted men. These are things which the married women ought to have applied. Most married women have abandons such services to their house girls. Others believe women emancipation is the freedom of women from their services at home and to their husbands I call on all married women to be wise. The time for foolishness is over. Let each married woman start to value her marriage and things will take a beautiful turn.
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Pamper Your Feet

If you Love your Feet they will Love you back
I'll admit it. I have a foot fetish. I love the subject of feet and footwear. Here are some tips on giving your feet the care they deserve. After all, your feet do a lot for you and deserve some pay-back for carrying your load around 365 days a year, sometimes with very little support, attention, or without so much as a thank you. Feet don't like being crammed into skinny, pointed, or high-heeled shoes and forced to lug you around all over the place showing off. They resist being asked to stand you in place for hours at a time on hard surfaces in shoes that don't support them. And, they do not like being ignored. They resent doing so much hard labor without so much as a thank you for their troubles.
How to Say Thank you to Your Feet
Don't ignore them when they call for help. When they complain about the shoes you're putting them into, or the way you have been treating them, pay attention!
Happy Toes
How would you feel if you worked yourself to the bone without support? Consider more foot friendly footwear if that is the problem. I'm not saying you have to throw away your heels, although I recommend that. My feet love Dr. Scholl's inserts in any shoes without much cushion. I know Dr. Scholl's supports don't sound sexy. But feet are impressed with the title, "Doctor," and love them!
If your feet love support, you should look for other kinds of inserts that provide arch support and heel cushioning, especially if you already have foot problems, such as plantar fasciitis, flat feet, or general foot pain.
Give them Treats on a Regular Basis
Soaking your weary feet can relax, energize, and heal your entire body. Everyone needs treats occasionally and feet are no exception. Feet love foot baths and soaks. Mine thanked me profusely when I sprang for a Dr. Scholl's foot spa with heat and a massager. I'm pretty happy myself when I sit back on my comfy sofa with my feet in nice warm water with a touch of bath salts or scented oil. It's a win-win all around. There are lots of foot baths to buy on line, and they are well worth the investment.
Remember when you soak your feet, the oils used in the foot bath become absorbed into the body and have a variety of healing properties and health effects. You can buy products with these oils or you can add a few drops of essential oils to your footbath making them very affordable:

• Lavender - helps calm the body, relax tired and strained feet, and combats mental fatigue and exhaustion
• Valerian & Hops - will help you fall asleep and sleep soundly
• Eucalyptus - a natural disinfectant - especially helpful during cold and flu season
• Calendula - use for cracked, dry skin - will moisturizing, soften, and deodorizing feet
• Rosemary - will energize the body and improve circulation
• Arnica - helps with bruising, sprains, sore legs and feet, helps reduce pain and inflammation

Paraffin therapy has received rave reviews by many feet, and salons typically offer paraffin foot and hand baths. I have a number of friends who claim paraffin therapy is heavenly, and actually smoothes the skin and removes dry areas. Warm paraffin is claimed to strengthen tissues and ligaments and improve circulation. These treatments help creams and oils penetrate the skin layers.
Give your Feet the Gift of Reflexology - Alternative Healing for the Feet and Body
Take your feet to a reflexologist or for a feel good foot message. Reflexology can be a great friend to your feet. My first reflexologist was a very sweet older lady with killer hands. She practiced tough love on my feet, and I have since learned that is not necessary. Reflexology does not have to be excruciating, but can feel wonderful. Reflexology is based on the principal that the feet and the hands have pressure points that correspond to all of the organs and parts of the body. When an organ is out of balance, circulation diminishes, and deposits, called crystals, occur in the feet. By massaging the corresponding points on the feet, circulation improves, and organs can heal. Whether you are a believer or not, your feet will appreciate being touched and loved up a bit on a regular basis.
Treat your Feet to a Pedicure
Even when it isn't summer your feet still want to look good. Just because you're no longer running around in strappy sandals showing them off, doesn't mean your feet no longer need attention. Besides, anyone you live with will be impressed by your pedicure. I don't want to go into the nightmare of uncared for feet here, so use your imagination. It's not pretty!
Buy your Feet some Fun and Functional Foot-Care Products
Feet love it when you buy foot care products and use them on a regular basis, so make sure you have these things on hand:

• A large nail clipper
• Emery boards
• Cotton
• Nail polish and remover
• A pumice stone
• Foot cream
• Epson salts, foot bath salts, essential oils
• Pedicure sticks for cleaning nails

Your feet will reward you for your troubles.
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All I Want For Christmas is a Full, Sexy Pout

A full pout is sexy. Luscious lips are alluring. Think of Angelina Jolie's pillow lips that ensnared Brad Pitt. Yet in Asian culture, a small red mouth is delicate and feminine. Think of the Japanese geishas with their painted mouthss. That crimson mouth painted on the white mask is much smaller than the actual mouth, giving the illusion of tiny, dainty smile that the orients find feminine.
East or West, sexy lips are rosy and smooth. Healthy conditioned lips are beautiful.
Start off with proper lipcare. Wear a lipbalm at all times, day and night and especially when you sleep. You could invest in a rich balm made of organic, natural ingredients, or you could smear vaseline on your mouth before you go to bed.
Besides moisturizing your lips, remember to exfoliate them.
You can apply a thick coat of balm on your pout, then use a dry toothbrush to brush your lips and exfoliate them.
Or you could make a scrub with honey and raw sugar. Apply a mixture of the two on your kisser. Leave them on for 5 minutes to moisturize your pout. Then gently rinse it off with water, rubbing your mouth gently with finger tips as you use the sugar particles to exfoliate the skin.
After exfoliating your lips, apply a balm to moisturize and protect your lips so that even your bare lips stay soft, rosy and very kissable.
In keeping with the natural look, you can pretty up your pout and make lips look fuller with lipgloss. Instead of a single gloss, use 2 lipglosses and a liquid highlighter.

1. Pick a lipgloss 1 or 2 shades darker than the inside of your lip.
2. Pick a pale pink, shimmery gloss for the highlight shade.
3. Apply the darker lip gloss over your entire mouth.
4. Outline the bow on top mouth with the liquid highlighter
5. Put a dab of shimmery pale pink gloss on the center of the lower pout

Voila. Your kisser looks instantly fuller, prettier and more sensual. If you really want to vamp it up, go red. Crimson lips are downright sexy.

1. Line mouth with a nude pencil to keep color pigments from bleeding.
2. Paint the lipstick on the lips with a brush.
3. Blot with kleenex and powder lips with a translucent powder
4. Paint another layer of lipstick on mouth with the brush.
5. Add a touch of shimmer on the center of the lower lip.

Want even fuller lips? If bee stung lips like Ms Jolie's are your obsession, you might want to visit the plastic surgeon for collagen injections to plump up your mouth. If that is too drastic, try a plumper.

Some plumpers, like Duwop lip venom use essential oils to mildly irritate the mouth so that the lips swell up.
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Problems Faced by Women..

This title per se is a sad reflection on the state of humanity at large and belies any claims that we may make to having evolved, refined or even civilized in the real sense. While it would be natural to categorize groups of people facing typical problems as migrants, retired people, students or even bus commuters and so on, it is weird and unnatural that a set of people should face issues only on account of their birth. Women have been oppressed, neglected and exploited since the days of the cave man. Sadly the evolving of man into a more refined, cultured or knowledgeable being did not put an end to this but merely changed the manner in which it was carried out. Women being oppressed in the early days may be a reflection of an age when physical strength and brute force were the only factors that determined superiority and women because of their being created as the weaker sex were vulnerable to such exhibition of power by the males. Having given up leaves and twigs for clothes and trees and caves for homes and cooked food instead of raw meat it is high time men gave up the typical cave man trait of suppressing and dominating women.
It is a sad commentary that women continue to be suppressed and ill treated in a country like India where they were given an exalted status surpassing the male during the Vedic times. Hindu customs and scriptures made it mandatory for the women of the household to be present in any prayer or ritual for it to be complete; women were deified as 'Shakthi' or the power or ability to achieve anything. Even in more recent times we can be proud that India as a democracy gave voting rights to women much before the United States or Britain.
The problems that women face in society can be to a large extent traced back to our homes. In the rural areas and among illiterate families girls are given secondary status in comparison to boys in nourishment, education and life style, while this robs them of a good start, it creates an indelible early impression in the psyche of the boys that they are second class citizens and do not deserve equal treatment which is a more serious issue.
Most families bring up girls in a manner that they need to depend on the males at home to get their day to day work done which makes them dependent and robs their self-confidence.
Strangely women exploitation cuts across economic and educational barriers, if they receive less wages, than their male counterparts as farm labourers or in export garment units they also receive a raw deal in so called corporate cultures where they are discriminated when it comes to rewarding through promotions. A Male's ego makes it difficult for him to accept a woman as his boss even if she has the right educational background and credentials.

While a sympathetic approach to the problems of women may be desirable in the present context, it should not take a condescending form or misplaced sympathy. Even if the intentions are good such an approach would make women feel that they are weak and handicapped and need to be bailed out by the stronger sex. Any consideration or special quotas in terms of jobs or seats in educational institutions may seem to better their lot initially but these may become crutches that they would like to use even when they can stand on their feet without such help. We can achieve long terms benefits only if women are taught to be self reliant, strong and confident right from childhood and given the same education and other opportunities that boys enjoy. It is equally important that they are exposed to the same competition and make their mark after competing on an even turf than being held by the hand to the victory post.Click Here!

Hobbies That Make Money For Women !!!

There is a saying from a wise business guru that if you do what you love, the money will soon follow. This perfectly describes the way to make money from your hobbies. A short list of marketable endeavors would include making and selling quilts, crafts, jewelery, creating and selling writing and photography, buy from garage sales and sale on eBay.
For any money making activity, it usually never hurts if you, for any number of reasons have a unique perspective. Selling quilts, crafts or jewelry are a good example of this. Are you super creative? Can you put out a plethora of unique designs that can make you money? Do you have high energy that allows you to work and work and work? Can you create intricate designs to sell?
To sell your writing, you would want to arm yourself with some basic knowledge about the writing industry. Subscribe to "Writer's Market," learn how to write a query and a proposal. Then, submit your poems, short stories, novels and novella's to editor's and agent's who area member of the Association of Authors' Representatives. Photography also provides a way to make money, but it's much more difficult to make money with it. If you can capture a human moment and/or can create a small studio, then you make your images more salable via stock photography. Just Google it, then find companies to submit to. Each company has their own requirements and norms. It is best to discern what a company's norms are by reading the Forums. Most online stock photography companies have them.
Lastly listed, is to buy items at garage sales that you can then clean up, write a description for, photograph, then sale on eBay. Look for unique items, antiques, current trends items and clothing that is in good shape.
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Wear Wide Width Womens Shoes to Keep Your Feet Healthy

For most women one of the greatest pleasures in life is shopping for shoes. That is unless they have wide feet. For women with wider than normal feet buying wide womens shoes can be a problem. This is because many women discover that retail shoe stores do not carry a good range of white womens shoes. Even when they manage to find wide width shoes the styles and varieties is usually very limited and many of the shoes are not particularly attractive.
The fact is that as we at age things tend to get wider this includes our feet. Also pregnant women and women have gone through pregnancy experience an expansion of their feet due to the extra weight and water retention so finding comfortable shoes becomes imperative. The wide width womens shoes are designed to help you easily fit into the latest fashion shoes and boots with comfort and style.
It's not really surprising to learn that ladies have a tendency to wear the wrong size shoe or boot just to feel a little more comfortable. The problem is that narrow or regular sized shoes may well become too painful to wear and if there are no wide womens shoe sizes available, so picking the wrong size seems like the ideal solution to the problem. It's not! Not only are many of the narrow style shoes (such as stiletto heel shoes) not designed for wider feet they actually do not look good in the wide width fittings.
Avoiding Foot Problems
Getting the right size show is not just about comfort and fit. It's about avoiding foot problems and caring for the health of your feet. Medical studies have found that almost everyone will have some form of foot problem during their lifetime and over 70% of elderly people suffer from complaints of the feet. Many of these cases are severe enough that medical advice was sought by visiting a doctor. So it comes as no surprise to learn that the leading form of foot problems was caused by ill fitting shoes.
Wearing shoes that are too narrow causes a number of different problems. The most serious of these problems, called a neuroma, is caused when shoes are too narrow. They compress the balls of the feet together casing the nerves to be pinched and it can be very painful. In some cases pain killing injections are required and at the most extreme surgery may be needed. If left untreated neuroma can lead to a substantial loss of feeling in the foot and even when corrected by medication or surgery it may return with continued wearing of poorly fitting or too narrow shoes. Moving up a size or two is not the solution as the shoes will still not fit correctly. The only solution is to buy wider fitting womens shoes.
Some of the more common issues that can be caused by poorly fitting shoes are calluses or even bunions. Calluses, are not usually painful can be unsightly as the skin hardens. Bunions on the other hand can be extremely painful and may need treatment. All of these conditions can be alleviated or even avoided By wearing correct sized shoes. Many women will make the mistake of thinking that by wearing larger sized shoes they will be wide enough for a good, comfortable fit. This is not true, selecting wide womens shoes with the correct width fitting will ease any current problems and help avoid issues in the future.

But it's not all bad news! Now there is a wide range of wide width womens shoes available across the internet due to the greater demand. Shoe manufacturers are finally realizing this and have started producing wide womens shoes in many new fashionable styles. So now you can look great and feel good too!Click Here!

How Do You Compliment the Apple Body Type?

Women that are considered "apple-shaped" tend to be thicker in the middle. Most often, any weight gained is noticed first in the midsection and upper body. Apple-shaped women tend to have thinner arms and flatter buttocks. However, dressing a certain way can help apple shaped women create curves and disguise trouble areas!
If you have an apple shaped figure, your strengths are usually your bust and legs. On the flipside, you midsection tends to be your weaker area. Keeping these two points in mind, let's look at some tips to help create a look perfect for your body type:
• Patterns should be worn with caution: It is no secret that larger patterns are good for drawing attention. With that in mind, any large patterns should not be used on the top half. On the other hand, larger patterns on a skirt paired with a simple solid color top could work well for your body type.
• Show off what you have: If you have a large bust area, playing up this area will take the attention off your midsection. Sexy v neck tops and supportive bras are your friend if you are not afraid to flaunt your ample bust. Just keep in mind, if you opt to wear spaghetti straps, or thinner straps, your bra straps should be hidden by those straps.
• She's got legs: Commonly, apple shaped woman have killer legs! Unless you are headed to church or the office, short skirts should be your best friend. Allow those great legs to get all the attention.
• What's in your back pocket: If you are lacking in the buttocks, try to select pants that have back pockets. Back pockets help create the illusion of fuller buttocks.
• Drop top: When possible, try to select dresses or tops that have a drop waist. These articles do no thin out in the waist area but instead thin out at the hips. This takes the attention off your midsection.
• A line diva: A line skirts are perfect for this body type because it flares from the waist area. This alone helps balance the top and bottom portions of your body!
Looking great in your clothing is as simple as learning what works for your body type. If you are an apple shaped, take the above tips into consideration and see if you do not see a change in your style! A fabulous figure is just a "tip" away!
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Wigs - Length, Color, Type

Wigs are gaining more popularity these days; a lot of people choose them as a way to improve their overall looks without having to constantly change their hairstyles. You too can use them on occasions including for daily purposes. You will be able to save a lot of money by using wigs instead of going to the salon and changing your natural hair style. You are also protecting your natural hair from unwanted damages caused by hair styling products commonly found on the market.
When it comes to choosing the right products, length, color, and type are definitely factors you need to consider. Wigs come with different length, and you can simply choose one best represents the look you are after. You will be looking beautiful with the help of these products; let us not forget the fact that choosing the right length will also enable you to style them properly according to your needs.
Color is the second aspect you should be considering when you are on the lookout for affordable wigs. You may opt for synthetic ones which are generally cheaper, but finding the right color to match your natural hair can be quite difficult with synthetic products because they are artificially produces; by difficult I don't mean impossible, because the options are simply limitless these days and you can find virtually any kind of wigs you want.
Last but not least, make sure you are choosing the right type that suits your needs perfectly. Wigs have different materials used for producing them; you will generally find products made from real human hair and synthetic hair along with different cap materials such as lace and latex. By properly assessing your needs and the purpose of buying wigs to fulfill them, you will be able to purchase the right type for total ease of use and maximum benefits.
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Want to Be More Attractive?

Recent research shows 90% of all women 15-64 worldwide want to change at least one aspect of their physical appearance. Who doesn't want to be more attractive? As a nation we have grown increasingly more image conscious and obsessed about changing the way we look. Switch on the TV and lose yourself in the emotion of the makeover shows, open a glossy magazine for the 'have they or haven't they' plastic surgery intrigue and more commonly, who has lost or gained the most weight this week! I am not saying this is a completely bad thing. Striving to be the best you can be, implementing healthy eating and exercise routines offers huge benefits to our well being and self-esteem.
Yet as illustrated above, statistics show a growing trend of dissatisfaction with our body image. However, the feeling of satisfaction with our body is more than just a physical reality. Our personal crusade to gain control over ourattractiveness  may one day meet the harsh realization that we may in fact never reach our desired physical state. Not only can we waste precious time and energy but often what we want may not be what we really need. A client recently told me she has been on a diet for 10 years and now refuses to attempt another one. What would have been different if she started her first diet with an acknowledgment of her current attractiveness and decided to work from there? To build on her strengths and view herself as already attractive?
Often we can mistakenly think a key to our ultimate happiness or success lies in a pair of size 8 jeans or a cosmetically straightened nose. Yet, if we are utterly convinced that we are unattractive, and have spent many years telling ourselves, it is unlikely we will transform how we feel about our appearance after a nip and tuck! The answer to how attractive you think you are is exactly that. You are only as attractive as you think you are.
A lifetime's belief in one's own essential unattractiveness cannot be unseated unless it is tacked at the root; how we feel and think about ourselves. Think of how often you ponder over your 'negative' feature, how long have you believed this? Who first told you it was true? What was their agenda? What is it costing you to keep this belief alive? Are you prepared to carry this into your future?
The good news is that if you really want to, you can change the way you feel about your looks forever. Attractiveness is a state of mind.
If you are serious about wanting to see the 'beauty within' and thus allowing the world to also see your beauty then I would ask you to start with just one thing:
Have a reality check:

Close the bathroom door and take a long look at yourself in the mirror, identify once and for all your body image gremlins. Now, take a deep breath and find 3 things you like about your body. Tomorrow, remind yourself of those three things and find another two. And so on. Start to acknowledge how attractive you are right here and now. If a negative thought pops in to your mind, thank it for offering assistance but from now on you have chosen to concentrate and focus solely on your beauty. Sound a little warm and fuzzy? Maybe, but what do you have to lose?
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Woman of Power - You Are a Survivor!

No matter how many times you have fell when trying to create change in your life, as long as you get back up you are a SURVIVOR! So shake off those feelings of feeling like a failure. You are not a failure, you are just developing a new strategy to succeed! Many times we have to go through a lot of not making the right decisions to learn how to make new decisions that will help us prosper and grow, because we definitely know not to go back that same route! Once you recognize that the old repeated pattern isn't working then you should create a new one. Now, I know that may seem easier said than done, but if you decide that you want to do something different...then just do it, that is really all that it takes! I am a firm believer that everything that we have been through in the past just helps us to build our character, so smile in knowing that nothing just happens. It is all part of the divine plan for your life!
As women it seems as if we automatically have the survivor mentality built into us, but for some reason or another down the line, we may have lost a part of us, and instead of living out being a survivor, we started living with the victim mentality, and many times with justified reasons. We may have been in a negative relationship where we were made to feel like the victim, or maybe we made choices that society thought that we should not have, and it diminished our perception of our self. Then all of the sudden we lost our self in the midst of accepting the opinion of others.
Well, this is our time! It is time for us to stand up and declare that this is a new day for a brand new us, and no longer will we listen to what others say we can do or be! If God said that we can do it...then we can do it! We may not know exactly how to do it, but with God directing our paths, he will not lead us to a road of destruction. When God gives us the motivation to achieve our dreams and goals, we have to be careful when sharing that with others, because as sad as it is, they may not support and believe in our dreams the way that we do, and if we accept that in our spirit, then we have went right back to being a victim!
Just believe in yourself, but more than that believe in the power of God, and the plans that he has for your life. Let go of people and things that are not healthy for you. Sometimes we have to do a life evaluation and check to see what the motives of people are, because truly they can only serve two purposes in our lives, either to build us up or tear us down. If we see that they are constantly tearing us down, then it is time to pray and ask God to lead us in a direction that is healthy for our spirit!
When you are survivor that fight is always in you, it may just be lying dormant, but once the real you reemerges they better watch out, because you are coming back better than ever! You are coming back with more fight, more drive and more purpose. We should always come out of things stronger and better than when we went in, because if we don't then it was all in vain. So if you are in a situation where you are in the process of moving past the past and pressing toward the future, please know that one day you will be able to look back and see the strength that you gained from every trial, every tribulation, every disappointment, every struggle and every tear. One day you will be able to look back and thank God that it allowed you to spiritually mature and grow into exactly what he planned for you to be.
Keep on pushing sister and know that you have purpose and potential, so no matter how many mountains you have to climb, eventually you WILL make it to the top. Your change begins right now... today! No longer do you have to look back and wish that you would have, no longer do you have to dream that you could have, no longer do you have to look at anyone else and wish that it was you. You can do whatever you want to do, your dreams can be achieved! So keep dreaming and keep believing. You are a SURVIVOR, so keep God in the plan and watch them succeed beyond anything that you could ever imagine!Click Here!

The Status of the American Woman in 2009

October 2009 saw a remarkable number of events, studies and statistics coming out relating to women and the progress they have made (and haven't made) over the past several decades in reaching social parity with men. Overall, the news is good; women have achieved some impressive gains over the past 50 to 60 years in social and legal equality, including in employment, education, and social institutions.
An informative and entertaining new resource detailing the strides women have made in these areas comes in the new book of Gail Collins, columnist for the New York Times and the first woman to become editor of the Times' editorial page: When Everything Changed: "The Amazing Journey of American Women from 1960 to Present". Collins, who is touting her new book everywhere from New York Public Library luncheons to The Colbert Report, illustrates with humorous anecdotes how much has changed for women, beginning with the story of an unfortunate New York City woman in the 1960s who was thrown out of traffic court for trying to pay a parking ticket in slacks instead of in a skirt. Collins reminds us that not so long ago women in some states weren't allowed to have credit, work outside of "women-appropriate" jobs, participate on juries or even fly on some airplanes. But by 1972 everything changed - at least legally - with the passage of Title IX of the Education Amendments, the approval of the Equal Rights Amendment in Congress and the Supreme Court ruling supporting the right of unmarried people to use contraceptives. Of course, then began the long slog of changing public attitudes towards women, which continues today.
In late October Maria Shriver, in partnership with the Center for American Progress, launched "The Shriver Report" - a status report of sorts on the position of women within American society. It involves surveys and statistical research on everything from today's gender pay gap to the rising share of women in America's workforce. The research yielded some surprising discoveries:
•Since the recession began in December 2007, men have accounted for three out of every four jobs lost (73.6%).
•Women now, for the first time, make up half (49.9%) of all workers on U.S. payrolls compared to a third of the workforce in 1969-a mere generation ago.
•Nearly 4 in 10 mothers (39.3%) are primary breadwinners, bringing home the majority of the family's earnings, and nearly two-thirds (62.8%) are breadwinners or co-breadwinners, bringing home at least a quarter of the family's earnings. And yet women continue to be paid 23 cents less than men for every dollar earned in our economy.
•Women receive 52% of high school diplomas, 62% of associate's degrees, 57% of bachelor's degrees and 50% of doctoral degrees and professional degrees.
Such a detailed study hasn't been undertaken in about 50 years since President John F. Kennedy, Shriver's uncle, asked Eleanor Roosevelt to chair the very first Commission on the Status of the American Woman. To publicize the year-long study, Time Magazine and NBC News joined the partnership, each featuring lengthy coverage of the report and profiles of notable women. The cover of Time Magazine's October 26, 2009 issue was "The American Woman" and NBC made women the centerpiece of a week of programming.
Ultimately, the take-away message of the report is that although the role of women has changed dramatically in the past 50 years, societal institutions have not kept pace. Schools still let children out well before the workday ends and close for three months every summer even though both parents in most families work. Doctors and dentists offices are rarely open on the weekends to accommodate family's needs despite a national culture where business is open 24/7. Quality, affordable child care is in short supply and every family with children must juggle the personal needs of their children with demands by their employers with little help from government or business.
"Men and women agree that government and business are out of touch with the realities of how most families live and work today. Families need more flexible work schedules, comprehensive child care policies, redesigned family and medical leave, and equal pay," said Shriver. In addition to the statistical meat of the report, Shriver crisscrossed the country gathering interviews from people to illustrate on a personal level what the data show. She and the Center for American Progress conclude that the country is at a major tipping point in our nation's social and economical history and hope their report provokes a national discussion on where to go from here.
Capping off the month was the wildly popular annual Women's Conference 2009 in California, founded and hosted by Maria Shriver. In recent years the conference has drawn record interest with 25,000 tickets to this year's two-day event selling out in just two hours in July. Shriver invites such diverse luminaries as stateswoman Madeleine Albright, Olympian Dara Torres, photographer Annie Leibovitz and kidnapping child-victim Elizabeth Smart to speak, teach and inspire attendees. Attendees say this conference was an even greater success than in years past.
Events in October 2009 made the month seem much like a celebration of women and their accomplishments over the past several decades. Also clear, however, are the great challenges still facing women socially, professionally, economically and personally. Of course, if the rate of change of the past five decades continues, it is fascinating to consider where America's women will be 50 years from nowClick Here!

Using Flowers As Hair Accessories

Few things are more breathtaking than a bride walking down the aisle with her hair adorned with flowers. When choosing to use flowers as a hair adornment, however, brides should be careful in their choices.
If her hair is short, she should try to stick with small blossoms, like baby's breath; although one large flower such as a gardenia could be used - but only one blossom. The amount and volume of hair should dictate the size of the flowers used. A crown of flowers works well with almost any length hair.
When choosing flowers for her hair, the bride must also consider her bouquet. It is a good rule of thumb that if she chooses to put flowers in her hair, she should use the same species of flower that will be used in her bouquet. If at all possible, she should make sure the same person who makes the bouquet also makes her headgear.
If a single flower or several small blossoms are used to adorn her hair, the bride should ask her hair stylist to insert them as she is having her hair done for the big day. If, however, her preference is for a crown of blossoms, she should rely on someone with experience in constructing floral crowns.
A professional florist will not only be able to help the bride select blossoms that are study enough to stand up to a full day of activity, they will also know exactly what tools and supplies to use to assure that the crown will not fall apart in the middle of the ceremony. The blossoms should also be treated with some sort of acrylic spray to hold them in place and prevent the petals from dropping off during the strenuous day. After all, the flowers that are in her hair will get a more strenuous workout than her bouquet. While the bouquet rests on a table, the floral hair accessories will be on the dance floor and meeting and greeting guests throughout the entire reception.
When it's all said and done, the bride should be able to dry the flowers and save her floral crown just the same as she would save her honeymoon corsage. But, without selection and proper care before the wedding, there will be nothing to save afterwards except leaves, stems and pins or the supplies used to construct the crown
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A Humorous Story Review For Women About Santa's Wife Interview

Women have a great range of humor and stories to tell to help express it. Recently, while at an online community for women, I read an article that is part of series which makes me laugh very heartily; the interviews Santa's wife. Normally, when we are thinking of Santa's wife, we imagine a soft and gentle woman; not in this article. Here we see a hard working, fierce, dare I even say, feminist Mrs. Claus come out of her shell. This is an excellent piece of humor for women that will make you laugh very heartily and have their husbands intrigued by the fierce wife of Santa. She openly puts down Santa when it comes to their work life: Santa is not as hard working as one would thinks it seems. What makes this better yet is that she talks of her more intimate relations with Santa. A priceless gem for women who enjoy humorous reading.
When you read the article, Santa is made out just to be a glorified delivery boy. Any time that there was a problem in the north pole, Mrs. Claus is the first to get on the problem. She seems to work very hard: she puts down protests between the elves and their bosses and regulates all the toy factories as well. Even though she may not be a real woman nor Santa a man, the humor for women in this is excellent. If she were a real woman, I believe many women would look up to her as a role model and also a feminist leader.
The most humorous part of this interview for any of the women out there tends to be when she talks about her sex life with her husband. You would think they like it soft and gentle: that doesn't seem to be the case by any means. Don't get me wrong, she is not a rough woman; she however certainly does enjoy a little role play every once in a while. She thinks that it helps her spice up her relationship with her husband in bed. Then again, if they were real, they would need some variety: they would have been together for an extremely long time. So some role play may occasionally be very fun.
This type of humor for women can be silly, but it helps liven up the day from time to time. Even though the characters may not be real, we still like to have creative satire that could change our views of them, especially in the case of Santa's wife. She is no longer a quiet old lady in the corner; she is fierce cougar waiting to pounce.Click Here!

Women Over 40 - Some Useful Infomation..

If you've picked up a copy of Redbook recently, or caught the latest Halle Berry movie, you know that is possible to look good after the age of 40. You might have even heard the saying "40 is the new 30." Well, while it is possible to retain a youthful glow and a joie-de-vivre that belies your years, women over 40 have a unique set of health issues that should not be ignored in favor of makeup tips and airbrushing. Middle age comes with its own unique set of medical concerns.
Heart disease is the leading cause of death among women over 40. That statistic alone should be more than enough reason to regularly consult your physician or cardiologist about your cardiac health, especially if you have a high-risk lifestyle or a family history of heart disease. You can also reduce your susceptibility to heart disease by maintaining an active lifestyle, quitting smoking, lowering stress and researching alternative birth control measures.
Women of all ages should perform regular breast self-examinations, but if you are a woman over 40 mammograms should be an annual part of your preventative health routine. Breast cancer is a terrible disease, and early detection increases the number of treatment options and the chances for success. The National Cancer Institute estimates that 1 in 7 women will have breast cancer at some point; don't cede this awful affliction more power than it already has.
n general, putting your health first is crucial, especially as you get older. If you are a woman over 40 (or under 40!), don't let the exigencies of jobs, families and friends prevent you from making sure your body is in top working order. Remember: You can always replace your job or family. You can't replace your body.Click Here!

The Perfect Accessory

Everyone says that diamonds are a girl's best friend, but what about her beloved handbag that she carries around everywhere she goes. When have you ever not seen a woman without a purse or handbag of some sort? Women everywhere carry handbags and purses. They have Juicy Couture Replica handbags, Fendi Replica handbags, and Gucci Replica handbags because they do not want to break the bank. The bulk of women in America would rather have a great looking handbag for less, especially if it looks real. A great handbag is usually there for an accessory while sometimes they are better equipped for being practical rather than great looking. It all depends on who is using it and what they are using it for.
A woman's handbag is like a small version of her; a mini version, if you will, of her personality and how she acts. Some women have a different bag for different days. There are small bags, large bags, dark bags, and light bags. You are bound to find whatever you need because there are thousands of different brand and probably over one million different legitimate handbags. Most handbags can be found that are not designer. These handbags are more affordable and easier to find at a basic store rather than at a specific boutique.
One of the best places to find handbags that look real but do not have price tag that is real is in New York. Specifically, you will want to look in the famous Chinatown district of New York. In this district there are hundreds and hundreds of different booths that sell different items for very low prices. In this district you will be able to find many people who are willing to sell you designer look alike bags for a very low cost. You may even be able to find Coach and Louis Vuitton for as low as thirty dollars.
Designer handbags are great and they always look very nice, but honestly if you could, buy a handbag that you could not tell the difference from and save up to even two hundred dollars on some purchases. Some handbags are worth it, but others are just another handbag, so why not take the less expensive route. These options are great for gifts or during the holidays when you are looking for multiple items for your friends and family. Purses, backpacks, wallets, or even designer checkbooks are great gift ideas for any of the women in your family.
No one should have to pay more than they can afford for a great looking handbag. Why pay enough money to burn a hole in your pocket when you can get a bag that looks just as great for a fraction of the price. Many people are uninformed believing that designer handbags are the only way to go when really designer handbags are not as great as they seem. A purse is a purse no matter what label it has sewn on it. It still serves the same purpose as a bag to carry around a women's world, literally.See how you can lose weight.

Women's Self Defense Tips.

To defend or not
The question is, do you or do you not defend yourself? There is no time to stop and contemplate, and even a moment's hesitation may see you overpowered.
The main thing is the intensity of your defense, which must instantly become an attack. Make a lot of noise, scream and yell. Don't just flail your arms widely in circular motions, use straight line thrusts to the eyes, throat and face.
Easy defense weapons
Key or keys, pen, lipstick tube, mobile phone, compact umbrella, hard glasses case, eye brow, or eye liner pencil, nail clippers,. These articles are not legally perceived as a weapon, as would be scissors' or a pocket knife. And of course you can travel by air with most regular items.
It is important to practice your response moves. It is best to use a partner who is taller and heavier than you. They may need to wear protective eye wear. Because you will be reluctant to use force on your friend, it is useful to practice forcefully responding against a cushion against a wall.
Practice your shin kicks and foot stomps again on a solid spongy item on the floor or leaning against the wall. You can buy high density foam and wrap it around a solid item.
Effective hand defences
Do not punch with your fists. You could break bones in your hand or wrist, even worse you may hit your attacker's teeth and end up with a nasty infection in the joints.
Women tend to have longer nails which prevent you forming a proper fist. You would hurt your hand or break nails. The palm of your hand is very strong. The best target is the nose.
Your fingers can rake the face or attack the groin, but the better attack is to gouge the eyes. If your attacker is temporally blinded he can't continue to attack you. Eye gouging while distasteful is highly effective.
Awareness the key
Women call it their intuition; men are a little less elegant and have a "gut feeling". The reality is that we get these signals all the time; it's just a question of listening and trusting this feeling.
Does this place feel safe? Do I feel OK with these people? Should I drive or walk this way home?
If you listen, you will feel an answer. It may be subtle, such as a feeling of slight discomfort, or as obvious as a chill, or the hairs standing up on your arm.
Important questions to ask
1. How are you travelling?
2. How are you getting home?
3. How will you locate your destination?
4. How will you manage if you get separated from your friends?
5. How are you going to find your way home, if your friends want to go somewhere and you don't?
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Modern Hair Styles With Wigs.

In the past couple of years, modern women are choosing shorter or more practical hair styles to look beautiful. Although short and modern hair styles are great for everyday use, not all women can enjoy them. Some women just love their long and beautiful hair too much to actually cut it. If you desperately want to have shorter and more modern hair style but you are still not sure about the idea of cutting your hair, I have the right solution for you.
You can simply try the hairstyle you are getting using wigs to help you. There are literally hundreds of wig products available these days and you will be able to find one that represents the hair style you are thinking of getting. The prices of these wigs are very affordable and you can get them easily by visiting several online stores available.
You can choose different styles of wigs. Nice collar length layered style with long soft fringe is very popular the past couple of months, so is the Classic bob style with beveled ends circling the perimeter and framing the face making a comeback. Countless other hairstyles you probably would love can also be found, so your options are limitless.
After you get the right wigs, you will be able to enjoy modern hairstyle without actually altering your natural hair. If you experienced problems with bad haircuts or if you felt bored with the new hairstyle after a while only to find yourself wanting your long and beautiful hair back, wigs should be able to solve all those problems for sure. You wouldn't have to worry about bad haircuts and feeling bored with the new hairstyle at all, because you can simply take the wigs off and enjoy your old hairstyle instantly.
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Role of the Paparazzi in Celebrity Weddings..

Paparazzi have become a stable part of today's media. If a celebrity's aiming to have a private Santa Barbara wedding, you can be sure there will be paparazzi there waiting. At every destination wedding photographers will have their cameras out and ready to get a shot of the happy couple. While the nature of invading ones privacy would come as morally questionable to most of the public, members of the paparazzi are forever looking for photographs that could land those millions of dollars. When this kind of money is in question, issues of morality and ethics tend to take a backseat.
While it could be expected that tabloid journalists would feel a pang of guilt for their behavior, most see themselves as fulfilling a desire from the public. This can hardly be denied, as the popularity of magazines that sell photographs of celebrities without make-up, out with their family or, indeed, getting married is staggering. These images allow readers to move past the heavily made-up, airbrushed and generally "fake" celebrities, and see that those we idolize as somehow above us are human after all.
The invention of the internet seems to have increased the popularity of tabloid journalism. While newspapers are slowly suffering an increasingly bleak loss in sales, many reporters of substantial news stories have been put out of work. For those who provide celebrity gossip and photos, however, there remains plenty of work available, and even respected newspapers have tabloid journalism at the forefront of their websites. The question of why this is can be answered easily: The lives of celebrities attract greater numbers of readers.
Consider the big weddings in recent times such as Brad and Angelina, Tom and Kate, Jennifer and Ben. The bride and groom at each of these weddings took extreme care to control the media presence at these events. In fact, these celebrities saw it fit to take control of the way their wedding is portrayed, agreeing to only certain reporters having access to their wedding, and having these reporters agree to a set version of events to take back to the news desk.
This control of the media has become necessary due to the pressure celebrities feel to provide information to their fans. Each of the three couples mentioned above also took it upon themselves to release a few pre-approved photos of their weddings to the media, in order to placate their need for images of the event, and to lessen the value of paparazzi images that may have been taken.
The nature of the paparazzi today has become unnecessarily invasive. The deeper issue that needs to be considered here, however, is why there is the desire of "normal" individuals to peer into the private lives of others. As long as this need is in place, the paparazzi will always have an audience of paying customers. So long as the money is there, someone will be willing to go into uncertain ethical territory, in order to get the massive payday on offer.See how you can save your marriage.

Creativity and Professionalism in Women

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Some professional women, especially those returning to the corporate world are unaware of the creative transferable skills they have. If you have been at home caring for children you probably have lots of experience with creative thinking. Cooking is a creative exercise, especially when not using a recipe, or thinking up ways to make a reluctant child eat. Finding interesting things for your children to do is creative thinking.
Thinking like a child is a great start to developing your creativity further. Imagination and the belief that anything is possible are at the heart of creativity. Combining known ideas and coming up with something completely new and different. There are some great activities you can engage in to give your creativity a boost.
Doodling is a wonderful way to develop creativity. Most professional women have been brought up to believe that doodling is a waste of time and especially that it shows you are not paying attention. This is not true, though if you are working with people that are unaware of that it might not be a good idea to be found doodling during an important meeting. All the 'great creative minds' were avid doodlers. DaVinci, Einstein and Picasso among them. Doodling is an activity that uses both sides of the brain and so encourages creativity. Drawing and painting also foster creativity being right-brained exercises.
Day-dreaming is one of the simplest ways to unleash your creative powers. Again as professional women we have been taught that day-dreaming is 'bad'. Certainly it is not appropriate in certain situations, but letting your mind wander when you have some time alone is a great exercise. Let your imagination run free and enjoy where it takes you.
Do something new, and read something new as often as you can. This adds to your mind's knowledge base and so gives it more connections to feed on, and so more opportunity for genuine creativity.
Learn to use mind-mapping for creative flow. Not the rigid, computer-generated mind-maps but your own originals. Take a look at Tony Buzan's website to get a full understanding of the creative power of mind-mapping. It is so much more than brainstorming or organizing.
Read up on some of Edward DeBono's creative thinking models. They are quite old now but still very effective. Go beyond the 'hats' and try out some of his other methods.
Use your intuition, think outside the box, and take risks. One of the major things with creative thinking is to put aside the 'that's not possible or wouldn't work' voice. Coming up with the idea is the first creative step, you can decide later if it can't work or find even more creative ways to make it work.
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Endometriosis and Infertility Are Associated?

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Endometriosis is a condition occurs to women during their reproductive age. Endometriosis and infertility are most likely associated to each other due to the effect or contribution of the disease to infertility. In this condition, the endometrial tissue that surrounds the lining of the uterus grows and reaches the outside part of it. Due to this progressive condition it may also infect the other parts of reproductive organs that are mainly located in the abdominal such as fallopian tubes and ovaries.
Studies show that 40%-50% of women that are infertile do have endometriosis. Infertility is one of the effects of endometriosis. It is a progressive condition which could cause abnormal and painful menstruation as well as painful sexual intercourse. Endometriosis and infertility is not a hopeless case. Do not fear that you could not have or bear any child anymore. Treatment and medication are always available.
If a person is diagnosed with endometriosis and infertility, a laparoscopy test is usually advice by the doctors to patients having this condition. Causes of this condition is still unknown up to this time. But some theories are believed that this condition could be a genetic abnormality during fetal development. Another is that the endometrial tissue that are suppose to shred during menstruation backs up through the fallopian tube and it implants in the uterine wall which causes endometriosis.
Endometriosis and infertility have the cause and effect to each other and these are best describes by the following:
Women with endometriosis causes fertilization impossible due to the peritoneal fluid which contains higher number of scavenger cells that destroys sperm cells that are suppose to fertilize the egg. Normal cycle of egg releasing in woman is affected by the endometriosis due to the blockage of tissue in a woman's fallopian tube. The condition affects the normal menstrual cycle of a woman due to the tissues that accumulates in the abdominal area that hinders the normal functions of each reproductive organs.
Pain is experienced by women having endometriosis and it hinders the woman to have more sexual intercourse which lowers the possibility to be pregnant.
his condition is experienced by many couples in the whole world. And it sometimes causes stress to both individuals which is also a contributory factor to infertility. Studies showed that stress also play a major role in infertility of a couple. This is because some infertility treatment are nerve racking that some couple couldn't manage to tolerate.Click Here!

Suffering in Silence ("Depression in Black Women")

Depression in African American women is real. Many black women are raised with the misconception that black people do not get depress. Or that black women are strong and can handle anything that comes their way. But, The National Alliance on Mental Illness has come to dispel those myths. Reports show that over sixty percent of African American women suffer from depression. According to a 2001-2003 study, Black American women represented the second highest rate of attempted suicide.
In many black households, they're taught not to spread their business in the streets. And if you have a problem, try to resolve it yourself in privacy, because black people do not see psychiatrists. What this misinformation has done over the years to black women is added on many other health issues as a result of suffering from depression.
Diseases that maybe caused by Depression:
· Strokes
· High Blood Pressure
· Obesity
African American women have numerous issues to deal with on a daily basis. Many are single parents that may not receive support from the child's father. They are barely making ends meet as the economy continues to rise. They have to deal with discriminations on two levels: being black and female. As African American women continue to dominate their black male counterparts in Corporate America, this silent disease continue to rise. Why, because it's hard to function many times when there is no one at the job that looks like you and you have to work twice as hard to prove yourself.
Depression can form also when a person is confused as to whom they are. When you have been criticized as a black woman for not looking a certain way it can bring on depression. Many in the black community make comparison between each other. If a young black female is too dark, they're made to feel ashamed of who they are. If their hair is short and nappy, they are taught that it's not beautiful. And in many cases these black girls grow up with unresolved issues that may turn into depression and self-hatred.
It's time to speak out against this silent disease in the black community, because what you don't know can kill you. Depression is claiming the lives of 1.4 million black females each year and the numbers are steady climbing. Yes, black people do get depressed and here are reasons why many do not seek help:
· No support system (Family/Friends)
· Lack of Insurance
· Communal Stigma

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What Does a Woman Celebrating Life Look Like?

I believe she's like you and me - trying her best to live a joyful, fulfilled life. Some days she's on top of the world, happily going through her day with a light heart.
Other days, days when her heart is hurt, she aches. Perhaps someone misunderstood her, or was unkind. Maybe she sees what she isn't and yearns to be more.
On these days she doesn't feel adequate, or she's frustrated, sad, or discontent...and she needs love, appreciation - a pat on the back for trying - this woman needs someone to notice all the good things she's doing, because she is doing her very best, but sometimes her best just isn't good enough.
However, even on our worst days - even on the days when we're really hurting - even on those days....we're celebrating life because life isn't just about sunshine, happy days on the beach and picnics. Real life is about clouds and rain, too. It's lived - oh, it's lived deeply - in hospitals, and wherever there's pain and suffering.
It's in the places where people suffer that life is appreciated the very most. People bond there, lean on each other, express their love, and they live in the moment like never before.
Yes, we should celebrate all the experiences in our lives that help make us better women.
And as you well know, some of the experiences that help make us stronger women were excruciatingly painful when we were going through them. But they taught us valuable life lessons for which we are now grateful.
And so we embrace our failures, our successes, our hard times and happy times - as moments to celebrate.
Yes, we all want to live joyful lives - that's been our hope and dream since we were little girls. And the good news is - as long as we have breath within us we can learn life lessons and become better women - truly celebrating life every moment!
I'd like to share some of the lessons I've learned from truly joyful women - some I've met - some are my heroes from afar.
I've noticed that JOYFUL WOMEN:
BELIEVE they can create positive change in their lives. If you believe it, you can become it; whatever you wish to be!
Lauren Bacall said, "I'm not a has-been, I'm a will-be!" That's such a great attitude! "As a man (or woman) thinketh in her heart, so is she."
Today let's believe that we can be radiant, enthusiastic, joyful women!
Let's BELIEVE we're beautiful!, just the way we are!
BELIEVE you are talented and gifted, because you are.
BELIEVE you can hurdle every barrier, because you can.
BELIEVE you have infinite worth and marvelous things to do on this earth, because you do.
Our happiness begins with a belief that we CAN be joyful, no matter what circumstances challenge us because happiness is a choice. Abraham Lincoln said, "Folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be."
I've noticed that joyful women are grateful for what they have and they focus on that. And the Law of Attraction tells us that whatever we focus on expands. If we focus on what's working in our lives we'll get more of that. If we focus on what's not working, that's exactly what we'll get - more of what's not working.
Dale Carnegie said, "Happiness doesn't depend on outer conditions. It depends on inner conditions. It isn't what you have or where you are or who you're with that makes you happy or unhappy. For example, two people can be in the same place at the same time doing the same thing, and one is miserable and one is happy. Why? Because of a different mental attitude.!"
Today, let's count our blessings; focus on what's working in our lives; put on a smile, and celebrate our lives

Are Wigs Really For You?

Women have been using wigs for centuries now; it is a well-known hair accessory that can be used to alter one's look completely and give hairstyle options without the need to alter natural hair of the person. You can easily find different kinds of wigs available; the best place to look for wigs is to go to online stores specializing on wig products. You will also be able to take good care of your wigs with the help of several wig care products also widely available.
If you are thinking about getting wigs to support your looks on occasions, you should really consider assessing your options before making the purchase. It is simply a matter of attitude, but knowing whether or not wigs are for you can help you determine the kind of wigs you should be getting and when you should use them.
If you love looking beautiful on special occasions, wigs can help you achieve an even better look by providing you with limitless hairstyle selections. You wouldn't even have to go to the salon before parties since you can just pick the right wig for the occasion and let it boost your overall appearance. If you can picture having new, amazingly beautiful, hairstyles whenever you are attending a party, then wigs are the product you should be purchasing.
If you are thinking about using wigs on a daily basis, or if you want to change your hairstyle but you don't want to deal with the possibility of getting a bad haircut and wanting your old -- long and beautiful -- hair back, you can choose natural hair wigs to help you. You can easily find different natural hair wigs with several popular hairstyles, or you can simply get one and ask your favorite hairstylist to create the style you wanted. Natural hair wigs can be treated just like your natural hair, so you can pretty much explore your imagination with hair, completely risk-free. If you love the possibility of getting the hairstyles you want without putting your natural hair in harm's way, purchase wigs to help you enjoy that possibility.
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Modern Bikinis and Active Wear Clothing...

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You as a woman want to look good. You can do this by taking care of yourself by eating right and exercising along with wearing stunning clothes. You can create your own sense of style and sophistication when you wear a sport's collection line of clothing.
You want active wear that is so comfortable you will want to wear it while you are busy or relaxing inside of your home, out grocery shopping, running errands, etc.
You will want to select sport outfits that have a modern feel and will have you working out in comfortable and stylish clothing. You will love the unique designs and look fantastic while you are working out. Take a hike in one of your sport outfits. Have you ever been working out and you happen to run into someone you wish you would not have seen due to how you look? When wearing a gorgeous sport outfit you will not have to worry about this as you will look put together and beautiful.
Save time and choose active wear outfits that are made out of Supplex fabric. For you this means the fabric will keep its shape, it is breathable, resistant to shrinking and fading and it dries quicker than cotton.
Since you work out and/or take care of your figure, you can stand out in a crowd with a unique bikini. Picture yourself on the beach wearing a designer bikini. You can feel confident in how you look. Do not be surprised if men take a second glance at you or stare just a little too long.
Although the bikinis you own are beautiful, they are also very comfortable. You can feel self-assured and wear them on the beach while playing beach volleyball. Do you like to play Frisbee and really get into it? Do not worry about having to adjust your bikini or put a t-shirt over it.
Relax on a boat with your sexy and unique bikini. You will enjoy basking in the sunshine in your designer bikini.
You can choose a unique bikini with full back coverage or a thong coverage. You can choose from bright colors, solids and beautiful bikini designs. The hardest part with regard to your bikini is knowing which one to select.
Perhaps you want to add a one piece swim to your collection. You will find just as beautiful one piece swimsuits as the bikinis mentioned above.
Look sexy and feel confident when you wear active wear and swimwear while on the beach, out on a hike, relaxing around the house, etc. You deserve to look great and feel great.Click Here!